Relationships: Real Love, Fake Love, No love

This is one of the chapters to a book I'm writing. I'm writing about relationships because I've been in so many that failed, I believe I can help some other people keep from making the same mistakes I made.



   To be in a healthy relationship, you must be able to forgive. There must be an open part of your heart that loves someone so much you can forgive them for what they've done no matter what it is. The bigger the problem the more you should be open to forgiveness. Love needs forgiveness because everyone does something wrong. Even if its something as little as stepping on a toe and not noticing. Or even as big as a lie or even cheating. Love has no face. Forgiveness is the answer. I wasn't always a believer in forgiving people. That was a big mistake that I've carried with me for so long. With love and relationships comes mistakes that you make. Nothings gonna be gold all the time. Forgiveness just helps ease the mind. And I will say that forgiving doesn't necessarily fix your problem. But you must be able to get past situations to move on and make yourself feel at peace about it.

   Cheating is one of the most common break ups in a relationship. However, rather you stay in the relationship or not you must be able to forgive that person or your gonna be bitter about that forever. If you don't stay with that person, your gonna go into your next situation upset and making accusations about them and make them cheat or just not want to be with you at all. What I've always been told is that whats done in the dark will always come to the light. So once this happens, once the light shines at its darkest hour, what should be your next move? Prayer works. You may not be religious but prayer works to keep you at  peace of mind. Just take some time to yourself. Think about your situation and pray.


   You can try talking to friends but friends don't always give the best advice.  Sometimes your friends can be having the same problem that your having. So there advice might not be the best but it will give you insight on what to think about. What really helped me was praying. I never tried it at first but once I did it really helped me out and I never felt better about my situation.

   "This just a little something I was thinking about through all the mishaps i was thinking about in my relationships. I have a lot more to say and I hope you will pick up a copy when I finish."