The definition of "Lie"----- To lie is to hold something which one knows is not the whole truth to be the whole truth, intentionally. If someone you meet says to you "I don't have a reason to lie. I keeps it real. 100%". Just know right then and there that person is a liar. No one keeps it real to every single person they meet. Lets just say I'm married and my wife asks if a dress she has on makes her look fat. The truth would be either she's fat herself or the the dress is to big anyway but I'm gonna tell her she looks wonderful and beautiful in anything she puts on. What man wants to argue with his mate while the game is on? The thing is everyone lies but no one is honest enough to say it.
We learn to lie at an early age. It starts at home when tell your parents the truth and get punished for it. Mom asks "who spilled all this juice on my floor and didn't get it up?" the child replies "I did mom." Pow!!! 3 lashes to the back... All you can think is that your not coming clean again about that. Then when you go to school its home all over again. Your school mates talk you into doing things you know you shouldn't do. After your caught what do you do? You point fingers and never admit it was you. LIE!!!!
Some people lie without conscious. It just comes natural like walking or chewing food. You can ask a person what they did today and they would go on with this story about flying to the moon and you should have been there it was amazing. Come man you don't even have a spaceship. There are common lies that people tell just cause because they didn't want to worry people with the everyday stress of life. But sometimes its good to just talk to someone just to release the stress your carrying on your shoulders. Why lie about your day though? When someone asks hows your day don't say fine. Just come out with what is really on your mind. No matter how messed up or great your day was it would do that other person some justice just to listen to you tell them about a little piece of you.
Inside of relationships so many lies are told. If you love someone you lie to them. If you like someone you lie to them. Even if you don't like someone you lie to them. Who wants to hurt there significant other? No one does. But the lies we tell them hurt more than the truth. We don't realize it when we first lie about a situation that the truth will come out and it will hurt the person we lied to. So why lie? We lie to protect the truth but we tell the truth to be mean. Its crazy. If your in a committed relationship and you cheat and you lie about it, its really to protect that persons feelings and your butt from the arguing that's gonna happen. If you tell a person that there ugly because you feel that's the truth. Well the truth would be your just mean and evil. There is no such thing as ugly. Its just everything does no appear to be beautiful to everyone eyes. If you say you love someone, don't lie to them. Lies lead to pain. Pain leads to hurt. Hurt leads to deceit. Deceit leads to revenge. And revenge can lead down a road so far that I'll blog on revenge another time.
I know look to tell the truth in every situation. Know I still lie but I'm not perfect. The truth is what youmakeit to be know a days. It takes to much energy to tell a lie. Its a long thought process. You have to think the story through. You have to keep the story going and it has to be the same every time you tell it are youwill get caught. I've learned the truth is easy. The truth is always right thereat the tip of your tung. The truth is not a long thought process youhave to think long about. The truth is that white lies are small truths trying to come out. Then again this blog could be a lieing truth. So becareful what you read. What you read could all be lies........
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