Thursday, August 9, 2012

Back Stabbers: Why They Do It








                     "They smile in your face but all the time they want to take your place, the Backstabbers"
                                                                                                                                          O'Jay's 1972


           I never really came across a back stabbing person before. Someone that talks behind your back so bad that they have people second guessing what they really know about you. Really, you never really know a person unless they give you full access to their life. But who does that? People don't want you knowing nothing that they've done that can make them look bad. But on the other hand the min a small negative thing pops up on someone, a backstabber swoops down like a super villain they are ready with there sharp blade for your back. A backstabber can come in the form of a good friend, a best friend, an associate or even a family member. It's so crazy though. Why would someone so close to you want to dishonor your  name. Jealousy is one of the reasons but let me talk about another one. "Spot Light"






     Yes good people of the world. The Spot Light is what the backstabbers really want. They will slander your name, their mothers name, their best friends name and even have the nerve to put religion into the mix. Saying things like I'm a man/woman of God knowing damn well they are the spawns of Satin. The other term they say all the time is they keep it real. Yeah right, you keep it real fake. The Spot Light to them is getting all the attention they can muster. They thrive on this. They eat it like breakfast. It fills them up just to know that they alone have ruined a persons character. As soon as you confide in them to tell a story that brings you to tears, they pat you on the back and say it will be OK. After that they smile at you  as they turn away from you though, the Grinch like grin comes across there face. They prepare themselves to go sharpen there blade cause it back stabbing time. They go around people who don't even like them and start curving up a turkey so juicy on you its unimaginable. They tell your story add a few things to it to it. And now there in the instant Spot Light. But they really don't know is those same people that the backstabber tries to impress turns and does a back stabbing on them. They talk so bad about the original backstabber and that gets back to the person the backstabber was talking about and then they tell the backstabber and now we got a big circle of backstabbing going on. As back stab city starts everyone is talking and pointing fingers all because of the original stabber wanted the Spot Light. I'm just gonna sum this up. Like the old saying goes, You Ain't Got To Lie To Kick It. Just be yourself. You are you for a reason. Theres no need for the treachery and deceit that goes on. Lets stop some of the lies and be free with one self. If some one doesn't like you for whatever reason that's there lost. Move on. No need to stop and make friends with an enemy that will more than likely stab you in the back later.    


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